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Alateen
is a fellowship of young Al-Anon members, usually teenagers, whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking.
Purposes of Alateen:
Young People Come Together To:

• share experience, strength and hope with each other.
• discuss their difficulties.
• learn effective ways to cope with their problems.
• encourage one another.
• help each other understand the principles of the Al-Anon program.

Sponsorship
Every Alateen group needs two active, adult members of Al-Anon (certified by their Area) to serve as sponsors.
The sponsors are an active part of the group, guiding and sharing knowledge of our Twelve Steps and Traditions.

Alateen Members Learn:
• compulsive drinking is a disease.
• they can detach themselves emotionally from the drinker's problems while continuing to love the person.
• they are not the cause of anyone else's drinking or behavior.
• they cannot change or control anyone but themselves.
• they have spiritual and intellectual resources with which to develop their own potentials, no matter what happens at home.
• they can build satisfying and rewarding life experiences for themselves.

Meetings
Alateen members meet in church halls, school rooms or other suitable places (many times in the same building as an Al-Anon group, but in a separate room.) Meetings are held throughout Australia.

Alateen Literature
Members are encouraged to read Al-Anon and Alateen Conference-Approved Literature and materials. Written from members' personal sharings, these recovery tools can help young people deal with their problems.

Alateen Link-Up
For a sample page of the Alateen Newsletter distributed with Al-Anon's national magazine Austra-Link, click here.

Is someone's drinking getting to you?
Alateen is for young people whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking. The following twenty questions are to help you decide whether Alateen is for you.

 
1. Do you have a parent, close friend or relative whose drinking upsets you?
2. Do you cover up your real feelings by pretending that you don't care?
3. Are holidays and gatherings spoiled because of drinking?
4. Do you tell lies to cover up for someone else's drinking or what's happening in your home?
5. Do you stay out of the house as much as possible because you hate it there?
6. Are you afraid to upset someone or fear it will set off a drinking bout?
7. Do you feel nobody really loves you or cares what happens to you?
8. Are you afraid or embarrassed to bring your friends home?
9. Do you think the drinker's behavior is caused by you, other members of your family, friends, or rotten breaks in life?
10. Do you make threats such as, "If you don't stop drinking, fighting, I'll run away?"
11. Do you make promises about behavior, such as, "I'll get better school marks, go to church or keep my room clean" in exchange for a promise that the fighting and drinking will stop?
12. Do you feel that if your mom or dad loved you, he or she would stop drinking?
13. Do you ever threaten or actually hurt yourself to scare your parents into saying "I'm sorry," or "I love you?"
14. Do you believe no one could possibly understand how you feel?
15. Do you have money problems because of someone else's drinking?
16. Are mealtimes frequently delayed because of the drinker?
17. Have you considered calling the police because of the drinker's abusive behavior?
18. Have you refused dates out of fear or anxiety?
19. Do you think your problems would be solved if the drinking stopped?

20. Do you ever treat people (teachers, schoolmates, teammates, etc.) unjustly because you are angry at someone else for drinking too much?

If you have answered yes to three or more of these questions, Al-Anon or Alateen may be able to help. Help and hope for friends and families of alcoholics is just a phone call away. You can contact your nearest Al-Anon office or the Australian General Service Office for meeting details or other information.

Al-Anon Family Groups AGSO
GPO Box 1002  Melbourne VIC 3001
Telephone: 03 9620 2166 (International + 61 3 9620 2166)
Fax: 03 9620 2199
Email:
agso@alphalink.com.au

(S-20) Is Someone's Drinking Getting to You?
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